Jen Lawrence is an MBA and former banker who left the world of finance for the world of sippy cups and goldfish crackers. She writes about her experiences on her blog MUBAR (Mothered Up Beyond All Recognition). She is an Editorial Assistant for Literary Mama's Reviews section and also contributes to the Literary Mama blog. Her work has appeared in The Philosophical Mother. She lives in Toronto, Canada with her husband and two children.
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I was following the UnaBomber case pretty closely at the time because he had mailed his packages to university grad students working on research projects. The kind of research jobs my friends had.
Perhaps because this happened in Canada, it was not publicized a lot. Sadly, even Canadians seem to be remembering it less and less. It happened in Montreal. I too was in university at the time (in Canada) and for all of the women I knew, it was very, very upsetting. To think that you could be killed just for being a woman and going to school - it was the first time I realized that something that goes on everyday in other countries could happen at home.
The fact that this happened to women engineering students strikes me as sadly ironic, somehow. In my experience (as a women with an MS degree in electrical engineering) women engineers are far less likely to discuss feminist issues than are women in more traditionally "female" fields of study. In fact, I can't remember ever talking about feminism with any female engineers--I've had some male engineers bring it up, though.
How tragic and absurd--I guess mass murders always are.