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A Simple Truth
"Some days I’ll do almost anything else,
Wander the house, tackle the ironing, dusting, I’ll shuffle
This pile of papers, those books, to another more sensible place"
The Simple Truth
This poem comforts me enormously. Over lunch just now, I read an essay by Mary Oliver in Long Life, about a garbage dump. She inventoried her feelings about garbage dump and her town’s plan to develop it in to a waste treatment plant. Mary found a certain reclamation of spirit about a garbage dump.
Another literary mama, Louise Erdrich writes in Advice to Myself, “Leave the dishes” and so I do. I walk away from those sticky things and leave them to the fruit flies and the hefty thick-winged moths banging around my sink. I walk away, resisting the temptation to stand there to wash my plate and everything else in the sink. Instead, I aim toward my writing desk. As I leave the kitchen, I lay hands on some chocolate and a pot of cold tea. I eat a chunk of the former and a cup of the latter and make my way to my desk where I write from my real life, on a real day in September, about real things.
I think that I am supposed to be writing about SOMETHING, some topic that is captivating and remarkable. In an excellent collection of essays, A Solemn Pleasure, author Melissa Pritchard writes about her dachshund. I don't even like dogs, though the first and only dog in my early life was a dachshund named Gertrude. My Lutheran minister grandfather raised dachshunds. My parents, newly wed and fashionable, choose one. But once I arrived, our Polish landlady in the two-story, brick apartment building on the far north side of Chicago, not in chic Evanston, but close enough, declared that it was either Gertrude or me. Since I was only one year old, I don't remember the discussion, but I am relieved to report they kept me. Maybe my first conscious memory is of sitting on the linoleum floor of the kitchen and the sleek brown body of Gertrude jumping on me. We were about the same size. I remember the yellow walls, her clicking nails and the light of the room.
When we leave the dishes and begin writing, when we wager the bet that what is real for us might be real for another reader, whether a garbage dump or a dachshund, we dive in with great hope that “our worst destructive habits and this empty mirror of a page,” as Rumi calls it, will meet some harmony, some sweetness of passage, some integrity.
This is the path I tread daily, or as often as I can, which I hope is daily. I tend to what absolutely must be done, and leave the dishes until another hour, when my mind is not so fresh. When I am flooded with urgent thoughts and titles and slices of sentences, doing the dishes, tying up loose ends, picking up that last pair of socks in the hallway has to wait.
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