January 2005 New Year’s resolutions: Stop biting nails. Work on writing. Fight fear. Get an agent. Who do you think you’re kidding? Tame inner critic. Grow thicker skin. Find lost libido. March 2005 Sign with agent! Sign Naughty Mommy book …

More often than not, when I tell another mom I write a sex column for moms the first thing they say is: “Sex — what’s that?” or “Ours would have to be the ‘No Sex’ column.” The second thing they …

“Go! Go! Go!” my husband commands, pushing me out the door. “You’re going to be late!” I am in a fuddle about what to wear to the soccer game he has pushed me into — friends of friends who play …

It is ironic that after employing extremely passive and dare I say, idiotic, birth-control methods for the first half of my sexual life, I am now in a situation where it would be entirely appropriate to get pregnant — and …

I am married to a man who has taken more women’s studies classes than I have. A man whose youthful band had a hit song titled, “Menses Man.” He is the one who will teach our daughter the history of …

Before we were a family there was just us. Just me and you, Husband, documented with a cheesy mirror we found in a gas station just outside of Reno. “Just Us, Always,” it said, in fat red script with hearts …