David Harris Ebenbach, father of a five-year-old boy named Reuben, has had his poetry published in, among other places, The Beloit Poetry Journal, Subtropics, and Mudfish. His first book of short stories, Between Camelots (University of Pittsburgh Press), won the Drue Heinz Literature Prize and the GLCA New Writer's Award. Ebenbach was recently awarded fellowships to the MacDowell Colony and the Vermont Studio Center and an Individual Excellence Award from the Ohio Arts Council.
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Thank you for this wonderful poem. I work as an executive coach and facilitator of learning and development programs in the US and abroad.
Immediately your poem made me think of the truth for the people I often encounter at work. In my mind, and as I read aloud, I replaced the word son with boss. In another version I replaced "My son" with "The executive." In yet two more versions, "The businessman" and "The businesswoman" replaced "My son." Then in all those hijacked versions I replaced "four" with "forty." The poem worked perfectly, and told a thought-provoking truth.
I wonder how both the four and forty year olds might be presented together...leaving the power of the similarities to be pondered. Thank you for your insight.
~David
Really beautiful and interesting.